A 12 year old growing up

So, in a perfect world, kids would be pleasant and easy to raise... if you have children, you know that we are not in a perfect world. Today, however, I had a taste of what it might be like.

Two days ago I found that my daughter had create an account on Facebook. It was created a while ago, likely at the behest of a friend. It was created after months of discussion about following the rules, one of which was having to be at least 13 to have an account.

I knew that the disobedience needed to be addressed. I thought that the reaction would be a bit of a tantrum. I was pleasantly surprised that it was a calm, respectful discussion about the importance of following rules and telling the truth. The discipline didn't seem to phase her - a week without computer, limited time at her friend's house and (after the one week) only accessing the computer when I am there.

I am proud of Marion because she was able to handle a situation that has to be tough for her in a mature way.